શુક્રવાર, 26 માર્ચ, 2010

Living In together without marriage..

- Recent remarks by Hon . Supreme Court India bench has generated lot of controversies…In talking arguments some gives reference it is under stood.


- But putting on table as a document and guideline is definitely interference….



- Many wise people have apologized on Judges’ behalf it is ridiculous to compare our life style with Shri Krishna and Radha . Hindu relegion’s non violence non propagating liberal attitudes are pillars… and this, and this type of such will hit for ever…in future too...

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- Similar institution is also arguing about Ram’s existence and asking for proofs in Ram Janmbhoomi controversy..

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They should have pointed to govt ..To make a law … so that exploitation of females in general can be marginalised or can be controled .
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- Days are not far when judges will give guiding lines for personal behaviors which shirt to put on and which pent to wear??? !!!!

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- Will they dare to mention Mother Mary as kumvari mata and        may be even for uplifting of some un lucky girl molestation issue?? … Can it be judged on equal terms???  I am sure that they will go for Kunti episode instead......
  
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- It’s a fake one man one woman marriage institution … which will be sufferer…the bonds which are laboring for scapegoat solutions will get an official let off . lot of running underground stories will gradually become o k … and same society will accept..

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- Where are those Woman right fighters ??? If Radha is put to some allegations … and same is quoted in the highest thinking authority of India ,,, just remember Draupadi is still SATI ,,, in spite of having 5 husbands , Mandodari is still a great lady in spite of having crush for lord Ram … Hindu Mythology is so liberal in its practice …you will find a good morale out come and guidelines from Shrimad Bhagvad Geeta for a thief,,, the person who is looted … persons ignoring it … and persons making lot of how out of it… all get inspirations…. !!!! most of the time by twisting the meanings…... May be Hindus  survival is very clearly dependent on democratic  non interfering and not propagating attitudes ...... thats no enemies in general  ... no militancy .....  but this type of leg pulling continued... and will be.. as shant rasa is wel developed in them....... have made it IMORTAL and    heritage saved…is some time irking to some potentially strong perceptors...

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- I am really surprised that Secret affair is OK …. Even lot of incest ..cross mutual consented living together is otherwise is running in society in full form. Those who deny and those who oppose strongly both are wrong …

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- Family value is not seen in casual fashion … its Hippocratic all the way …

- Mother is worried that her daughters affair should not be publicized…. At any cost …. And once marriage done … all responsibilities over..now the NASEEB part takes over our responsibilities are finished....... attitudes   !!!!!!????

- We have 2 male icons Saraswatichandra gujarati and Devdas bengali... both are intellect pampered spoiled richborn persons.. both get 2 woman  Kumudsundari and Kusumsundari for Schandra and  Paro and Chadramukhi  !!!!  One goes for social work in end of novel and another succumbs to frusstration and liquor wine wises...
- For the masses a simple allowing things means lot of directional guidelines… so those who pushed their marriages for sheer silver jubilee …. Feel that it’s a success… not seeing lot of compromising …. And let going ,,, sacrifices from family a lot… now people are a wake of their rights….

- Every cloud has silver lining and the whiteness of moon still people say chand me daag hai चान्द मे भी दाग है.... मेरा कहेना है दाग से कोइ परिस्थीती ,,,कीसीको भी फायदा होता है तो दाग अच्छे है ....

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- In past if Divorce rate is low … is only because few had guts + resources+ compulsion  to pull it off…most of we are family , caste and society bounded…and little . They all are and were settled in some ridiculous compromises ,,sacrifices…(a big masala for soaps are in store)…various combinations etc.. 

- In relation ships of modern era small causes also lead to D… as time is the solution most of the time which was easily passable in conservative knots ... children pressure of children , kith keens  , cousins , family , society , circle is beyond western imagination...

- With little here there let go attitudes..Marriage will survive and society may remain intact.. in polynuclear , uni nuclear forms..

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- If lieutreture is reflecting society status then past polygamy , infidelity, pulling on , drifting on , taking up saint path and becoming sadhu devdasi rakhail …suicides ,homicides, affairs all were practiced ,,,now also they are in plenty…some minor percentage of people will get benefit also….as its kids protection … and  for some salvage some prestige saved would be achived with this…

Objection is not for reform... its simpley wrong... hurting quatations giving attitudes towards HINDUS..
n.b.  Dr Shailendra Vora has also inspired me and given some valueable research tips in writing this article.
dr h g joshi .